Whitney Houston's toyboy lover Ray J has no problems with the 17 years between himself and the soul diva because he has always dated older women. The R+B hunk was just 16 when he had his first encounter with a much older woman, who bathed him in rose petals. Ray J, who is singer Brandy's little brother, says, "I got bathed in roses and she had this all white house and all white furniture and she always wore white clothes. "I can't say her name because she might get in trouble."