"We had to change the name for legal reasons... I believe she has passed away. I got to see her again as an adult and I gave her a piece of my mind... There was a lot of verbal, mental and physical abuse." Actress Rosie Perez on the nasty nun named in the title of her memoirs, Handbook for an Unpredictable Life: How I Survived Sister Renata and My Crazy Mother, and Still Came Out Smiling.