Robin Thicke and Paula Patton are ending their marriage. The couple, who first met when Thicke was just 14 and tied the knot in 2005, are calling it quits almost a decade later. They have been keeping mum about their reasons, but they did release a statement to People, saying: “We will always love each other and be best friends, however, we have mutually decided to separate at this time.”

Paula Patton, Robin Thicke Grammy Gala
Patton and Thicke have been together most of their lives, married in 2005.

It sounds like they’re ending the marriage on good terms – not surprising, considering how vocal the two have been about their love in the past. Last fall (right around the Miley Cyrus VMA storm) Thicke said: “We're pretty sure we've loved each other for a few lives.”

Turns out, Thicke wasn't really ready himself.