"We're each other's assistants. We pick up each other's slack. Whoever is less busy helps the busier one. 'Can you go pick this up for me?' or 'Can you book my flight?' That's what real life is. Once you start paying somebody else to do the grunt work, who are you?" Actress and mum-of-two Rebecca Romijn, who refuses to hire a nanny, insists teamwork is the key to her six-year marriage to comedian Jerry O'connell.