Arquette, who was previously married to actor Nicolas Cage, has been engaged to the THE PUNISHER star for several years, but they can't agree on a marriage plan.
She says, "We've been planning for years to get married. It might take until the summer or so.
"We've changed our concept so many times. I thought, 'Let's have a gypsy, hippie wedding - yeah that'll be great. Let's invite everyone we've ever known.'
"And then I've thought, 'This is horrible planning this thing, let's have a tiny wedding.'"