Rem - Gone But Not Forgotten; R.e.m.'S Legacy
Much has been written in the past few days regarding R.E.M.'s split after 31 years and 15 albums. While the majority of tributes and retrospectives have looked at their musical influence, there is another legacy that the band has left for many people in their twenties and thirties. Unlike so many other bands, for a generation that grew up in the 80's and 90's, R.E.M. has always been there.
For many fans R.E.M. were not a traditional singles band, instead the album format was the reason why you loved them. While digging through their treasure trove back catalogue, there were also signposts to other bands you would come to love. Without the guidance of Stipe and his bandmates, I wouldn't have encountered Television, The Replacements, Wilco, Headswim, or even Patti Smith. That back catalogue also provoked a deeply personal experience with very few fans concurring on their absolute favourite tracks, not because there were too many to choose from, but because they became inseparable from moments in your life that you'd never forget.
R.E.M.'s split feels different to other landmark musical moments, Cobain's suicide for example, because you hadn't always been able to reference every part of your life with a band like Nirvana, and not just because they hadn't existed for decades. R.E.M.'s music covered so many emotional shades, and was so universal that the moments you shared with it spanned a breadth of people and time. That's why their legacy won't be just the music that will continue to be the soundtrack for people's lives, it will be the memories that they've given you.
So I'll remember being 12 and persuading my mum to buy me a cassette of Automatic For The People on the day it came out, then making her listen to it on the way home and converting her to being a fan. I'll remember being at a girls house at the age of 16 and singing along at the top of our voices to a VHS tape of R.E.M. videos. I'll remember a very hazy Glastobury '99, where R.E.M. is
It seems I'm not alone, with many fan pages popping up on the internet. That's not a bad legacy to have built, considering that once upon a time this was a band from Athens, GA, that were considering calling themselves Cans Of Piss. Perhaps Peter Buck hit the nail on the head earlier this week when he said; "Being a part of your lives has been an unbelievable gift. Thank you." So farewell R.E.M. and good luck to the band members as they go their separate ways. For anyone who has ever had an 'R.E.M. moment', remember their songs, but above all else remember where you were when you heard them.