Affleck: 'Lopez Was Bad For My Career'

09 July 2009
Ben Affleck

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Affleck: 'Lopez Was Bad For My Career'

Ben Affleck has spoken out about his high-profile relationship with former girlfriend Jennifer Lopez - insisting it was bad for his movie career.

The actor began dating the singer in 2002 after starring in Gigli with her, and the pair later became engaged before splitting up shortly before their scheduled wedding in 2004.

Affleck is adamant he should never have got involved in the first place - because the publicity surrounding their romance tainted his career.

He says, "I was no longer in control of my life. I thought I wanted certain things, but I didn't. I got lost. I felt suffocated, miserable and gross. I should never have gone down that route or got sucked in to all the publicity.

"I was typecast as myself. Too many people weren't getting past what they read about me. That was damaging. I can tell from experience it's bad for you, and bad for your career. So I took a break, went away for a while and let things calm down."

And he admits he is much happier with his wife Jennifer Garner and their two daughters, three-year-old Violet and six-month-old Seraphina to look after.

He adds, "Work has taken a back seat. My job is not as important as it was. Saying that having a family changed my life is a cliche. But it's true - it re-arranged my life and made me see clearly."


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Comments View All Comments (63)

12th September 2009 00:00

okayokay22     (2)

Ben Affleck is a bad actor. I don't enjoy watching him on the screen and he needs to improve his acting by going back to school. How pathetic that he has to put down Jennifer Lopez inorder to coverup his lack of acting ability. Why would she be bad for him? She has a beautiful voice, is an excellent actor, great dancer and has worked with some of the best in the business. Besides having a perfume line and clothing line, the woman is respected in Hollywood. Man up and take control of your own destiny. Part of the problem you have is you can't understand why your friend Matt Damon has done so well and you haven't...The reason is he is a much better actor and is believable, you are not.

13th July 2009 17:00

janeil88     (1)

Where did he say it was JLo's fault? Did i miss something here?

13th July 2009 12:00

brownnjax     (1)

I have even less respect for Ben Affleck. He says he is much happier now with his current wife,DUH!! That's why people break up and move on. As for his career, wasn;t it already bad. Matt Damon is talented, Affleck is not and that is why his career is not good, while his best friend's career is awesome. I think Ms. Lopez was used by Ben and hopefully the current Jen is happy. As for Mr. Affleck, I will never, ever see one of his movies again.

13th July 2009 09:00

Noor     (1)

wow

13th July 2009 05:00

lauramar     (1)

This is not the first time ben affliction makes the same comment about Jeniffer Lopez. Back in October 2007 he blamed Jennifer Lopez for the demise of his career in another magazine article. Back then, he got tons of angry emails. So you would think he would have learned his lesson. NO HE DID NOT!!! only this time he made it worse by adding that it made him feel gross AND YES I DO KNOW HOW TO READ. However, the implication is there and he did not make an effort to clarify what he meant; and even if he had, it was in extremely poor taste. He knows the ramifications of such a comment and that it would surly be taken out of context anyway. ben affliction is DEPRESSED, CRAZY AND/OR ON DRUGS AGAIN!!! He is obviously unhappy with his wife and is still in love with Jennifer Lopez; furious at Mark Anthony for keeping her happpy; livid at the fact that Mark Damon is so successful and that he married a latina himself. He's an angry disgruntled has-been -- who has failed as an actor but most importantly as a man who should never consider himself a gentleman. Shame on him! AND I'm just getting started!!!

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