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HILARY SWANK - SWANK UPSETS PSYCHOLOGIST WITH NUDITY REMARKS
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SWANK UPSETS PSYCHOLOGIST WITH NUDITY REMARKS
HILARY SWANK has sparked a storm of controversy in the U.S. by confessing she's often nude in front of her boyfriend's six-year-old son in a new magazine article.
The actress tells the new Marie Claire that she never wears anything to bed and that means her lover's kid often sees her naked, prompting top psychologists to urge the Oscar winner to cover up.
In the article, Swank says, "My boyfriend's son is six years old, and you wonder at what age you should stop walking around nude. Every morning he comes into the bedroom, and you're just nude. But he doesn't look twice; he doesn't think about it yet."
Qualifying her Marie Claire remarks during a TV interview on Monday morning (19Oct09), the Boys Don't Cry star added, "I think every family's different and you have to know what's right for you and your family."
But top psychologists don't agree - Dr. Jeff Cardere says, "Hilary, you're not this child's mum. What if things don't work out with your present boyfriend...? Who knows what might happen in the future; what his psycho-sexual adjustment may be. It's not a good thing."
19 October 2009 22:01
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<p>I am concerned by Dr. Jeff Gardere's remarks as they are so contrary to my
own experience and that of many others and contrary to the findings of several
surveys.
<p>Unlike Dr. Gardere, I am not a qualified psychologist, but I do have
considerable experience of children brought up in an environment where
non-sexual nudity is normal.
<p>I wonder if Dr. Gardere has spent so much time with children who have
suffered trauma from childhood experiences very different from that described
by Ms Swank, that he has forgotten that it can be normal to be naked. I'm
reminded of the gynaecologist who has done so many Cesarean sections or forceps
deliveries that he has forgotten how to deliver a baby normally! (Midwives
generally deal with normal deliveries)
<p>I agree with Malcolm Boura's comment - the relationship between prudery and
teenage sexual problems illustrated by the national statistics is most
compelling.
<p>The psychologist's criticisms just go to show that not even the professions
are immune from body prejudice. I just hope that the comments are not motivated
by desire for self publicisation.</p>
<p>There is not a shred of objective evidence to show that nudity causes harm
to anyone of any age. There is strong evidence that the attitudes of some
people to nudity, and the way that their reactions affect children, do result
in harm. There is very strong evidence that prudery and body-shame result in
widespread and often serious harm.</p>
<p>Try comparing any of the indicators for body-shame and body-image related
issues amongst teenagers in the USA with their contemporaries in say Denmark,
The Netherlands or indeed many other countries with fewer hang ups about the
body. Attitudes have consequences and prudery and shame result in widespread
and often serious harm.</p>
<p>It is important to realise just how serious the consequences are. Teenagers
in the USA have far less opportunity to find out in a safe way about the sexual
aspects of their bodies and to discuss such matters with adults. The results
are predictable. Teenagers in the USA become sexually active nearly a year
younger, they are less likely to use a condom or contraception and they are
more likely to be promiscuous. The consequences should come as no surprise.
Several times more likely to have an abortion. About ten times more likely to
become pregnant. About seventy times more likely to have gonorrhoea. Which is
really more important, body prejudice or young people's lives? That is what is
at stake.</p>
<p>The facts are really very clear. Either be open and honest about the body or
accept the consequences. Prudery is just child abuse with good intentions.</p>
<p>Footnote. Right to life. Want to reduce the abortion rate by three quarters?
How about looking at the attitudes which result in so many abortions and doing
something about them?</p>


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