JENNIFER LOPEZ - J.LO TO WED WITH CLEAR CONSCIENCE

Superstar beauty JENNIFER LOPEZ may have a history of failed relationships - but she insists no-one's got any hard feelings.

J-LO is due to marry Hollywood hunk BEN AFFLECK this weekend (14SEPT03), after months of fervent speculation and gossip. Her marriage to the PEARL HARBOR actor will be her third.

But the actress-singer insists she is on good terms with all her ex-partners.

She says, "Sometimes when people don't get along with their exes I think it's 'cause they've broken up in a nasty way - it's like, 'You did this to me and I did this to you!'

"There's all this blaming going on. I'm very giving in relationships, kind of selfless in a way.

"So when I leave they're not mad at me for leaving 'cause they know I did the best I could. It's never been a thing where it's, 'You were so bad to me!'"