Affleck Lopez Was Bad For My Career Message Board and Comments

Ben Affleck is a bad actor. I don't enjoy watching him on the screen and he needs to improve his acting by going back to school. How pathetic that he has to put down Jennifer Lopez inorder to coverup his lack of acting ability. Why would she be bad for him? She has a beautiful voice, is an excellent actor, great dancer and has worked with some of the best in the business. Besides having a perfume line and clothing line, the woman is respected in Hollywood. Man up and take control of your own destiny. Part of the problem you have is you can't understand why your friend Matt Damon has done so well and you haven't...The reason is he is a much better actor and is believable, you are not.

Where did he say it was JLo's fault? Did i miss something here?

I have even less respect for Ben Affleck. He says he is much happier now with his current wife,DUH!! That's why people break up and move on. As for his career, wasn;t it already bad. Matt Damon is talented, Affleck is not and that is why his career is not good, while his best friend's career is awesome. I think Ms. Lopez was used by Ben and hopefully the current Jen is happy. As for Mr. Affleck, I will never, ever see one of his movies again.

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This is not the first time ben affliction makes the same comment about Jeniffer Lopez. Back in October 2007 he blamed Jennifer Lopez for the demise of his career in another magazine article. Back then, he got tons of angry emails. So you would think he would have learned his lesson. NO HE DID NOT!!! only this time he made it worse by adding that it made him feel gross AND YES I DO KNOW HOW TO READ. However, the implication is there and he did not make an effort to clarify what he meant; and even if he had, it was in extremely poor taste. He knows the ramifications of such a comment and that it would surly be taken out of context anyway. ben affliction is DEPRESSED, CRAZY AND/OR ON DRUGS AGAIN!!! He is obviously unhappy with his wife and is still in love with Jennifer Lopez; furious at Mark Anthony for keeping her happpy; livid at the fact that Mark Damon is so successful and that he married a latina himself. He's an angry disgruntled has-been -- who has failed as an actor but most importantly as a man who should never consider himself a gentleman. Shame on him! AND I'm just getting started!!!

AY !BEN AFFLECK YOU ARE LESS OF A MAN !! WHAT POOR TASTE BY TALKING THAT WAY ABOOOUT JLO !UG UG HOW CAN THE CURREN JENNFIER STAND YOU??? YOU ARE REALLY A DISGUSTING PERSON !! WHAT A DISSAPOINTMENT ! WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE ANYWAY ????

Jennifer lopez gave you life and your career was so so..so you do not look happy even with your children you look like you are dead now....where is your energy?? Gardner looks like a boring woman

What career? Ben is no better than a 3rd rate actor. If anything, J Lo MADE HIM!

Ben Affleck says he is happy with jen gardner now but can you notice how he looks ...he looks unhappy...he likes strippers...Ben we give you few more years..Ben you have the looks but your career was over before...jennifer lopez,,,jen gave you LIFE

Exactly, what career? He was lucky witht the script he wrote with his buddy. He looked good with her even dressed better with her. In fact, standing next to her, she made him look good. Not nice what he said. If he were to divorce his wife, would he shell out all the dirty laundy of his marriage to Gardner? SHAME ON YOU BEN!

Ben Afflac is a sorry ass loser, he shows his true colors here by spesking ill of someone. I believe it wasn't JLo who sought him out, but the other way around, he sought her out, she was married at the time, remember Ben? He ruined a marriage, and if I was that guy, I forget his name, I think Chris Judd or something I would have "kicked" Afflac's ass for flirting with my wife. The punk thinks he can have anything he wants, and then when he broke up a marriage and used JLo for his own publicity purposes and sexual gratification, he turns around and dumps on her, nice. He had no intentions of marrying her, let's be real, he just wanted to do what whiteboys do, play around with the hot "latin" chick, and now that he is safe and sound in his perfect "white" marriage, he shows his true colors like the asshole he is.

It's hard for me to believe that Affleck said those things. He seemed to be a gentleman, but apparently that's not true. He made his own career and if his work was not up to par on the screen that was his own doing, NOT Jennifer's. He's not even a man, much less a gentleman, if he can't own up to his own shortcomings. He's low class and will lose a lot of viewers for any upcoming movies because of his crass comments.

Of course his career is in the toilet, of course it was an ugly relationship, what else did he expect, lopez's "boyfriend" before him was the negro sean combs, No white man should ever date a woman who has been with a negro, the same goes for white women, a white man who has been with a negro woman is seriously messed up in the head.

It was Ben who sucked in the movies with jen. He's the reason her latest movies failed. She was very popular before he came along. Shocked and dissapointed to hear this low life, loser, blame others for his shortcomings. Not a man I would care to know. Marrying Gardner saved Ben, but now he is tanking himself and wife, and I will watch any movie now that J Lo is in just to teach this loser to take responsibility for himself. Grow up jerk. Matt should stay awy also, as this kind of bashing may hurt his career. Ben is toast. Don't insult woman, or even different ethinc groups, because you will lower your own class and let other classes emerge. Grow up you dirty Bum. Take a shower and shave that ugly beard. The only time you seemed interesting to the world was when you dated her, not after and definitly not now. Your brother seems fine. I hear hard rock casino is looking for a dealer. How about it Ben. That's where you belong. SHame on you. J Lo., do not respond to this loser. Let people see what we know now. Loser, gay, and dirty guy, who isn't a real man. He gives men a bad name. So long loser. Take your wife with you as this family isn't interested in anything you all do, including Matt, althought i really care for Matt, but not sure if i can stomach the connection when and if i see another of his movies. He sucked in last movie and if not for Jen aniston, he would be nothing. Notice how Aniston's last movie made pennies. She should not have had Ben in her movie, because he also effected her now. Ben is bad news and I'm offended. Am originaly from Boston, and don't think Boston needs your type. You are a disgrace to all men, and women and the movie industry.

Affleck... A has been... oh wait never was! Do you think the Aflac duck might hire him to do a commercial? Only thing I see in your future

felt gross with her?? it should be the other way around your the gross 1

The best thing he did was to break up with that wench, she was, she is and she will always be what she is: a ghetto girl... regardless of how much money she has accumulated....She has no class what so ever.... If he had dated Salma Hayek or Penelope Cruz... then we are talking!!!! those are classy ladies. They don't have to wear Armany to look classy. But that wench J.Low/Lo, you can see how vulgar she is, no matter what she wears or where she lives. You can take the wench from the ghetto...but not the ghetto from the wench. ... A lot of people are glad, starting with his mother, that he did not marry her. Thank God! he married Jennifer Garner....better choice!

really ben? do u think we all forgot about that full page ad u took out slobbering all over a married woman(j.lo) acting like a lovesick puppy/horny college boy??!! lol and look at u now, trying to pass the blame onto someone or something else, typical democrat attitude, lol, go crawl back under your rock, loser. lol :D

I'm shocked and appauled at what this loser has become. His friend Matt is happily married to a latin women and she, J Lo, as all latin women should be proud of who they are. I'm european, and never cared for ben, was never really a big fan of J lo, but this news will make J Lo more popular now, because no one in their right mind will ever see a movie Ben or his wife is in. he just tanked whatever career he had left. He is a drug user, gambler, alcoholic and she is a much better person than he could ever be. His wife is the gross one. Looks dirty and wears run down underwear. Even his kid looks unkept. How dare he insult her. She's the one that dumped him because of the gambling, alcoho and drugs. She married someone she felt safe with. Ben, get a grip, you are toat. Had i heard this comment before his last movie with Aniston, i would have skipped it. Any movie he is in from now on, even if with Pitt or Jolie or any great actor, i will skip because this kind of talk is not an option. Ben YOUR A BOLD LOSER and YOU ARE THE GROSS ONE. I think J Lo's career might just get a jump start from this and his will be in the toilet. Now, he may come out and apologize to save his butt, but guess what Mr. Your toast and any director or producer will be taking huge risk in casting you. Why not get a job at a casine since that makes you fell great. J Lo, if you are reading this, don't stoop to his level. I wasn't a fan before, no reason, but now I am. GO J LO. By the way, I don't know much about latinos, but I do know they are great people who don't feel the world owes them something. They seem to be proud of who they are and live according to their own likes and dislikes, and not by some loser's comment. Matt must be appauled also, and his wife shoud not welcome him at all. Even Matt's career may go south if he supports this loser. Garner, wake up. He still has feelings for Jen. It's obvious, BUT NO. He's no good for any woman.

This is so typical of the tabloids. While I think Ben should have been smarter about his comments, he doesn't refer to JLO as gross and miserable he refers to the media and hype around them. So he should have had some sense not to make this kind of comment to the media who have titled it as such! He is obviously happier with his current Jen, so why even take time out to comment on a previous relationship? Knowing full well that his comments are going to be distorted. Common sense isn't so common. Besides his relationship with JLO didn't tank his career, it was his choice of films and the partyboy attitude he advertised with his Vegas poker lifestyle. His image was no better than the guys in the Hangover :)

Geeze, If I ever like Ben before I sure don't now. How dare he make those" I felt gross" comments. What a swine..com'n Ben have some class..I think you might have just done more damage now than you claim J-lo did. Your unbelievable!...Men...ughh

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Actually I think 'Matt Damon' is who Ben would rather be with. They're always together, ALWAYS. Makes you wonder huh? Rumors for years anyway that he's gay.

I always thought that relationship was a joke. It was obvious that relationship was only about sexual attraction and once he'd had enough he would kick her to the curb. Too bad he felt the need to bring it up in the tabloids. That was dumb. I don't particularly care for J-Lo but at least she doesn't kiss and tell.

Ben Affleck you are a EDIOT and pretty much everyone sees you that way. You don't know how to act, suck at it actually!!! Your actions prove you don't have any class or respect for yourself or others. Seeing as you don't give a s**t about the feelings of others is pretty clear the reason why many people don't care about yours. Poor Jen (ur wife) to be married to someone like you. She's too good for you!!! You may have felt gross with Jen but when you were with her your appearance looked better than it ever has in your life. Now you look like a BUM!

wrong again benny your acting skills or lack there of is what will always be killing your so-called career.

LMAO!! the poster that said Ben is gay with matt.. I know it sounds lame but I thought you meant to say Bengay! HMMM..... sounds like where I would apply him right now!

Ben, who? He isn't that great of an actor anyway! He should take lessons from Georgoe Clooney or someone like that.

Ben you are such a woman! Didn't your mother teach you anything! You never bad-mouth a woman no matter what. Nobody put a gun to your head to date JLo, propose and plan a wedding with her. Grown up!, and stop blaming others for your career being in the "crapper". From what the public saw it didn't take you very long to get together with the other Jen....rebound relationship maybe?! Actually if you would have stayed with JLo your career would have been better off. Because other than getting married to the right "Jen" and having 2 lovely kids, I don't see that you have done anything or that JenG has helped your career much either. So Stop whinning enjoy what you do have,you have more than most,and by all means act like a man!

First of all, she's not chicana. But the ignorant poster might think ALL hispanics are. So, why bother. AOL is having a slow day. I mean, Ben Affleck??? Ben who???

I believe that this is typical of actors looking for headlines to get attention. Sure he may have made a mistake(which I believe is not true-he was planning to get married come one he is not being honest and if anything chicken****) in the past but why bring it up now. I don't think it is a good choice to blame the past at this point he should just say the past is the past I respectfully want to keep my and JLo life private. That is all he should say. As for the other guy named sticky he is the worst of the lot commenting here and worthy of the many racist people that still exist. JLo good luck to you and don't even bother with these small fry minded people who comment like stinky did. A friend in EAST LOs Angeles

Thank God he dumped that fat ass.

BEN "CAN'T ACT" affleck, IS DISGUSTING AND GROSS, HE LOOKS LIKE HE SMELLS AND NEEDS A SHOWER, I WILL NEVER WATCH HIS MOVIES...EVER AGAIN. HE'S A COWARD!!! P.S. BEN IS GAY WITH MATT

Ben has lost his mind ! Jen should be happy to be rid of him. The press drove her nuts because she couldn't go any where without them finding out. Matt and Ben's doing. Ben used her to get more publicity, no one really knew or cared who or what an Affleck was. Every bit of trouble he got into during their relationship Matt was always there in the thick of things. When she became upset after seeing the paparazzi hiding and taking pictures he told her, "relax and pretend their not there." A reporter let it slip that it was Matt who gave them the heads up of the couples where abouts. So for Ben to try and blame her for his misdeeds only makes him more the loser than he already was. Where is Matt now that the relationship ended? Once they broke up Matt and Ben weren't hanging out as much. Or was it that people were thinking he and Ben had a relationship with each other that made them stop hanging out? Thinking back it does make one think.

Its very Its very interesting that Affleck felt "lousy and gross" about his relationship with JLo because of others, while I thought that Affleck's behavior was "lousy and gross," because he knew full that Lopez was married to another man at the time he began his pursuit of her, and that she divorced that man as he continued his pursuit of Lopez. Affleck's failure to acknowledge his adulterous offense, to offer his regrets for breaking up a marriage, indicates that Affleck STILL is a "lousy and gross" loser and that his depiction of a character with honor would be an unbelievable "lousy and gross" farce.

Wow... Ben stooping @ his lowest. Yeah, he bought the chick a huge, rare diamond ring. He loved her then. So his carer, which was never all that, still can't take off so let's blame my engagement to another celebrity. Your brother is a better actor Ben! Oh hell, Benji is a better actor! Be a man and stop your whinning!

What a jerk. I remember when he was dating her, he said people were interested in their "interracial" relationship. WTF? Puerto Rican Americans are all kinds of races-just like mainland Americans-Germanic blond to African-American. Lopez happens to be a caucasian one-no visible Taino I can see. What the heck did he see? I bet she had to explain to him that PR, is indeed part of the United States.

That really is a load of bs. Affleck sucked before JLo and dating her was not bad for his career but HERS. So what are you saying Ben? That you felt miserable and gross because you're were dating a bearutiful hispanic? Glad that you got what you wanted...should have went for your own in the first place. What a Loser.

BEN WHO?? OHHH, THAT BEN AFFLECK THAT WAS HAPPIER WHEN HE WAS SPLEEPING AROUND WITH HIS BEST BUDDY, WHAT'S HIS NAME, DAMON??? YEAH RIGHT...I GUESS MOST PEOPLE FORGOT THAT IT WAS DAMON THE PERSON THAT CAME BETWEEN JLO AND YOU??? EVEN MS PALTROW, WHO LIVED WITH BEN AFFLECK CONFIRMED IN AN ARTICLE THAT SHE LEFT HIM FOR THE SAME REASON THAT JLO DID, BECAUSE OF HIS SO CALLED RELATIONSHIP WITH "DAMON". BEING GAY IS OK. BUT BEING A JERK WITH WOMEN AFTER THEY LEAVE YOU AND BLAME THEM FOR YOUR FAILURES IS WRONG. JUST COME OUT OF THE CLOSET BEN AFFLECK, AND MAYBE YOU CAN BE HAPPIER, LIKE WHEN YOU GUYS CO-WROTE THAT MOVIE THAT MADE YOU GUYS GET NOTICED IN HOLLYWHO. OTHERWISE YOU WOULD STILL BE BACK IN BOSTON AND BROKE. WHAT A COWARDLY THING TO DO, BENJERKOFF...NOW, WHO YOU GONNA BLAME NEXT IF YOU DON'T GET A BOY? JEN DIMPLES??? JLO HAS A BOY AND A GIRL, MAYBE YOU ARE JELOUS. MARC ANTHONY TURNED TO BE A BIGGER MAN THAN YOU IN EVERY SENCE OF THE WORD, BENNYBOY..LOL

Sorry Ben, you allowed Matt and others to dictate to you. I agree with those who said: Ethic backgrounds played a part as well... Even your mother didn't like Jen Lo... Just face it... Jennifer Lopez, was too much woman for you. Don't blame her for your failings. You were not that good to start with... You sound like a little boy... Grow up... Both Jennifer's are great. You I don't know about...

Ben... SHE DUMPED YOU...OBVIOUSLY YOUR STILL NOT OVER HER,,, YOUR STILL TALKING ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP...

OH BEN, BEN ! A GENTLEMAN HAS NO MEMORY..YOU ARE WORST THAN A SCORNED WOMAN.. WHAT DO YOU DO FOR A LIVING, BEN ?..YOU CAN NOT ACT, SING OR DANCE..YOU SHOULD BE THANKFUL FOR THE EXPOSURE YOU GOT.. LET ME TELL YOU, I AM SURE MS.LOPEZ & HER FAMILY ARE HAPPIER THAN YOU..AND SHE DOES NOT SMOKE POT OR DO DRUGS EITHER..HOW ABOUT YOU BEN-WHAT??

The titles to these stories are so misleading, especially this one. I was redirected from AOL. If you actually READ what Ben said, and I'm not a huge fan of his so I don't really care... HE DOES NOT 'BLAST' JENNIFER LOPEZ, nor is he blaming HER. Learn to READ!

What a jerk! He should be glad JLo stooped to get involved with him! I suppose he blames the other actors,the director,etc. when his movies tank at the box office!JLo is the lucky one to be rid of his whining ass! These Hollywood"men" are all a bunch of wusses.He and Justin Timberlake are cut from the same cloth. Justin let Janet Jackson take the fall all by herself for the "wardrobe malfunction" and never stepped up to accept any responsibility. Here's another one. Sad ass clown!

JLo was the best thing that ever happened to yah.....get over yourself....don't blame others for your failures...you are looking ugly anyways....you lost the shine when you lost jenny #1....PUNK!!!!!

JLo is your typical skanky chicana who probably has no idea about hygiene, that's why he felt gross with her. Now she's married to that little runt who likes women who have no hygiene. JLo can't act and can't sing. The only thing she's known for is her smelly big ass.

Soon he'll be blaming his mother, sisters and any female cousin he cares to name. He let J. Lo lead him around by his nipple ring and now he wants to whine about it. Nobody controls you, your career or your life without your permission, Ben. Two words, "Seek therapy."

I totally agree Ben can't blame Jlo as He was with her for nearly 2 years and if it was as bad as he is saying He would have ended much sooner. Buying Homes and expensive cares with her so it couldn't hve been that bad. remember there are 2 sides to every story and Jlo hasn't commented on it and probably won't to show everyone she is the better person.

he felt gross? well i dont have to wonder why. have you seen the pictures of him most of the time he looks like a bum. like he could use a bath,shave and to wash his clothes. i'm not fan of jennifer lopez. but please, what kind of a so called man would blame a woman because hes a loser .

I didn't think they were a good match from the get go. His mother wanted him with a white girl and her mother wanted her with a Puerto Rican. They both are happy now, leave it alone. Why bring up the past now Ben? What happened happened.

Of the Ben Affleck/Matt Damon duo, Matt has the acting talent. They say they both wrote the screenplay for Good Will Hunting. If that is the case, and I am not so sure I believe, Ben should stick to writing. Spending a $100,000 to get his teeth fixed did nothing to improve his acting. He was a mediocre actor. He is not nor will ever be the caliber of actor that is Matt Damon. He can't blame that on Jennifer Lopez. Let's face it. She is a mediocre actress as well; however, she can dance, sing, design and promote. Did i mention, she is gorgeous. She contantly shows her fans her different layers. When she is less successful, she does not blame anyone. She goes back to the drawing board. Ben is staying at home because no one is calling him. I suggest he checks in with his friends, whom he let manage his life and see if they can get some gigs for him. What should be making him feel "gross" is he has now shown the readers and bloggers that he is a little bitch.

he states " He should have taken more control of his life" hmmmmm well if he would't have just sat back and allowed his friends and family and media take control of their relationshiop and etc..maybe this relationship wouild have worked. He was very much in control of his life that statement in itself just tells you he wasn't a strong person to control what was said he could have spoke out you have to face it Ben you are a celebrity your life isn't so private once you are in that status. He should have had the reporter retrack that statement about Ben blames Jennifer for his faltered career. He is stating it was a mistake to date Jennnifer lopez but I am sure there are some things he enjoyed doing while he was with her such as slept with her but now he is telling JoLo that was a msitake so just slap her in the face And if you remember while he was dating Jennifer lopez his mom was the number one person who objected to the realtionship to begin with. Plus if he was so miserable he should not have proposed to her he should have gotten out of the relationship like a previous reader mentioned Ben and Jen (lopez) are now happier people too bad Ben finally speaks out years after the relationship..plus I never watch his movies any way...lol nor Jennifer Garners so I didn't bother me ...lol

No Ben, your bad acting ruined your career. I really don't care for J.Ho but I really don't care for men who blame their shortcomings on other people. Matt Damon (who I really don't care about either) was the only one in that friendship with real talent. Ben just tried to get by on his "good looks". At least Jennifer Garner has some talent, she can be the breadwinner in that relationship.

I am really upset reading the nasty comments Affleck made. I never even paid attention to him before he started dating Lopez. Basically the only thing he really has talent for is making babies so maybe he should just stick to that! Why even say anything after all this time? It's not like anybody really cares!

Give me a break! Going from JLo to Jennifer Garner is like going from Halle Berry to Whoopie Goldberg! LOL

What career,He was more popular with her than without her.He is an idiot you do not trash a woman after you've been with her. not much of a man.

Affleck shouldn't have insulted J.Lopez so publicly like that and also so many years later!!??? What was the point? Still some hurt feelings there? It was just low and I hope J.Garner doesn't feel flattered because when things go sour he will be insulting her. Maybe he will or won't depends if his feelings are as strong as the ones he has for J.Lopez?? Wherein there is still a grudge???

Too bad Ben Affleck felt the compulsion to spill the beans after all these years. While I thought you were a strong presence on the screen, your career was doomed before JLo became your girlfriend. After these demeaning comments, I see why you failed as an actor and a person - you are just typical.

Affleck shouldn't have insulted J.Lopez so publicly like that and also so many years later!!??? What was the point? Still some hurt feelings there? It was just low and I hope J.Garner doesn't feel flattered because when things go sour he will be insulting her. Maybe he will or won't depends if his feelings are as strong as the ones he has for J.Lopez?? Wherein there is still a grudge???

I always thought you were a great actor - mature, intelligent and sensitive. However, your career was in trouble before JLo came into the scene. I'm disappointed that you are making these comments after all these years since the relationship fell apart. While you are entitled to your own opinion,now I think understand why your career suffered - you are just typical.

DID YOU ALL READ EXACTLY WHAT HE SAID? HE IS NOT BLAMING JENNIFER LOPEZ, HE IS BLAMING THE MEDIA, THE PUBLICITY, THE PAPPARAZZI. GEE PEOPLE, LEARN HOW TO READ AND UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU READ. THIS IS HOW PEOPLE GET QUOTED WHAT THEY DID NOT SAY.

I agree with the first comment. How utterly immature and so rude of him to bash a former girlfriend for his miserable shortcomings. If he couldn't get decent work, that's his own responsibility. But to come out now after all these years and blame a former girlfriend? I never cared much for this guy to begin with, but I think even less of him now. Shame on you Ben. Jennifer Garner really won a prize allright. She can have you. Jennifer Lopez is the lucky one here. Ben, neither you or your wife have enough talent to match what Jennifer Lopez has. She's a great dancer, and is quite the comic in some of her movies, as well as some serious acting. Be a man Ben and apologize for your unkind words about JLo. You don't hear her shooting her mouth off about your shortcomings, one of which you just made known. Is your bud Matt Damon just like you? Hope not.

Career, what career? His career was sucking before he started dating J Lo. In fact, dating her gave him some interest. Man up, don't blame a woman for your short comings. You were weak and didn't have the back bone to stand up under the pressure or to your friends. Glad your happy now, but guess what, so is she.

Quite frankly, I have less respect for Ben Affleck now that he's made those comments. How do you blame someone else for your shortcomings? Give me a break. Ben and Jen failed as a couple because of the ethnic divide and because of his best bud who was constantly whispering in his ear "Leave Her!" Jen's got her own life and style. Ben didn't fit it any more than she fit his. But don't blame her, Ben. If you were going to end up feeling this way you should have stuck with what your buds recommended was "right" for you and never bothered. Read that how you want.