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Director : Nir Bergman
Producer : Assaf Amir, Yoav Roeh
Screenwriter : Nir Bergman
Starring : Orly Silbersatz Banai, Maya Maron, Nitai Gaviratz, Vladimir Friedman, Eliana Magon, Daniel Magon, Dana Ivgi
The winner of nine prizes at the Israeli Academy Awards and a hit in its home
country, this is the story of a family that appears to define the term
dysfunctional. A mother who is more than a little distracted strives hard to
fulfill her parental duties, caring for four children who are a study in
rebelliousness, escapism, and anger. Their torment and misery stretches
patience to the point of annoyance until its source is finally revealed, at
which point our sympathies are ignited.
Dafna (Orly Silbersatz Banai) can't quite catch up to her debts despite meeting
all the demands of her job as a midwife in a local hospital, but she manages to
provide the bare needs of her two boys and two girls. 17-year-old Maya (Maya
Maron) is a singer-writer who might be on the cusp of discovery as a rock
artist were it not for the demands of keeping the family together when Dafna
isn't able to. The obligatory compromises lead to disaffection in the
relationship and an unnatural sullenness.
Maya's troubled twin brother Yair (Nitai Gaviratz) is a study in denial as he
insists that the people in his world are unreal, unimportant, or non existent.
School and his scholastic promise are becoming more and more meaningless, along
with a rejection of basketball, the sport in which he's been a rising star.
Rebellious misbehavior is most staggering when young Ido (Daniel Magon) gives
physical expression to his desire to fly by jumping into an empty concrete pool
and nearly breaking his neck. Perhaps a death wish? And finally, little Bahr
(Eliana Magon, Daniel's real-life sister), is left on her own to wrestle with
the burdens of adjusting to a world that's become difficult to comprehend.
The crosscurrent of problems afflicting the family and their efforts to cope
tend to eventually break down some of the attitudinal isolation, occasionally
introducing humor into the mix. Dafna sees something of a silver lining in a
developing relationship with a doctor (Vladimir Friedman) while her courageous
perseverance demands our respect and caring. Maya's confusion of emotions and
aims take shape under the affection and loyalty she receives from friends and
family. Yair's meet-up with an old girlfriend brings out the essential
sweetness of his personality and develops some hope for self re-discovery.
The smoldering bomb in this movie goes off when we discover that this is a
family stunned into extreme distress by the tragic death of a father nine
months previously, jolting us with a new understanding. The character and value
shifts, self doubts, defiance, personality disorders, and neuroses are symptoms
of grief. The dynamics are suddenly explicable and moving, and they become a
powerful statement about loss and the difficulty of adjusting to it.
Writer-director Nir Bergman's (Catching the Sky) emotional thickets are
well-realized by a fine ensemble cast that takes its time to hook you into
total concern. The central relationship between mother and daughter is finely
tuned to reality and is a layered portrayal of interdependence and sacrifice
even as the two are being most severely tested. These players are experienced
in Israeli cinema and collectively demonstrate a warm, natural appeal.
It's almost surprising that a story from this embattled country can be made
without a single reference to the politics and dangers that pervade Israeli
life. But the strict avoidance of any reference to matters outside the family
circle makes it a universal metaphor for all families traumatized by
catastrophic loss, from natural causes or violent ones.
Aka Knafayim Shvurot .
I've got a bike, you can fly it if you like.
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Rating: R, 2002