"This is about standing up to domestic violence. This is not to be silent about domestic violence. This is a highly publicised case... and if I'm silent... can you imagine how many other women and children that do suffer at the hands of a perpetrator and they have no chance to come here... and speak about this." Mel Gibson's ex-girlfriend OKSANA GRIGORIEVA insists her main reason for talking about her relationship and break-up with the movie star on news show Larry King Live is to shed light on the issue of domestic violence. The singer claims Gibson attacked her while she was holding the couple's baby.