The 34-year-old soul singer was so desperate to rescue his four-year-old marriage to the Oscar-winning actress, which ended in January (05), he committed adultery as a means to rectify their troubles.
Benet, who was allegedly treated for sex addiction, says, "I'm powerless to stop people thinking bad of me.
"I'm not a sex addict. I was just in a desperate place in my marriage and I wanted to do anything possible to save it."
While he does deny philandering, Benet does concede having "physical contact that was extremely inappropriate and wrong in marriage".