Gwyneth Paltrow is struggling to find a balance between family and work and wants advice from other actresses in the same situation. The Shakespeare In Love star is married to Coldplay singer Chris Martin and the couple have two children, Apple, two, and MOSES, 10 months. The 34-year-old is slowly getting back to work and wants to call her colleagues in the industry to find out the how they handled the transition. She explains, "I'm not going to work like I did before I had kids. I want to call Kate Winslet and say, 'Can you tell me how to do this?' "Or call Cate Blanchett and ask her to describe (her day) from 7 am on, and tell me what to do, because I don't know how to do this!"