"It's one thing when you have an infant but when you have this two-or three-year-old going, 'Mommy, what's the deal?!' - it's harder. Kingston's whole thing is, 'I need, I need'. He is insane right now. We're just hoping for the best and that he's not going to turn out to be a freak, but we'll see." Gwen Stefani is struggling as her son KINGSTON goes through the terrible toddler stage.