Gwen Stefani was terrified she'd be a bad mother to son KINGSTON because of her hectic life as a glamorous pop star. Stefani gave birth to Kingston - her first child with husband Gavin Rossdale - last year (06), and was pleasantly surprised she made a natural mother. The 37-year-old says, "My biggest fears about motherhood were, 'How would I fit him into my life? Would I be too self-obsessed to be able to care about him enough? "I have a really extraordinary life and I obviously have a lot of passion about the things that I do. So I didn't know if I could be selfless enough. But obviously I can. It's the most amazing thing that has happened to me."