Evanescence frontwoman Amy Lee is fed up of being portrayed as a "bitch", insisting it is possible to succeed and still be a nice person. The raven-haired rock beauty admits she had to toughen up to survive in the cut-throat music industry, but her real problem is that she is too forgiving - not that she is a hardhearted tyrant. She says, "I've learned to be a bitch, that's a better way of saying it. "But there's sexism at work here. Like, I'm on top, how did that happen if I'm not a bitch. "How could I be a nice person and have ended up succeeding? People don't say that about guys. "But I think my best quality and my worst quality are the same thing: too much forgiveness. I really let people walk all over me."