Eva Longoria's mother gave the DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES star a sober reminder of her inter-racial romance with basketballer TONY PARKER - by insisting she didn't send her grandmother a picture of her lover. Longoria tells the new issue of Allure magazine that she was planning to post her grandmother a SAN ANTONIO SPURS calendar, so she could see what her boyfriend looked like - but her mother reminded her that not everyone approves of the fact she's dating a bi-racial man. Longoria recalls, "She said, 'You can't give grandma a calendar. She doesn't know Tony's black.' I said, 'We'll just tell her he's French.'"