THE Black Eyed Peas singer Fergie and boyfriend Josh Duhamel avoid the pitfalls of other high-profile relationships by trying to stay out of the spotlight. Fergie, real name STACY FERGUSON and actor Duhamel, have been dating since 2004, when she made a guest appearance on his TV show Las Vegas. He claims the key to staying together is keeping a low-profile: "We just genuinely love each other. We stay out of the spotlight as much as we can. "So many times people are too in the spotlight, which puts too much pressure on things." Meanwhile, The couple insist they try not to take constant rumours and media reports surrounding marriage plans too seriously. Fergie adds, "We get a kick out of it. Every other week, we hear we're engaged."